Sexual Techniques

Ignore the shady ads in the paper. Sensuous massage is not about sex; it's about intimacy. You can use massage of all parts of the body, from the facial muscles to the feet to all parts between, to build intimacy and sexual tension. Learning to give as well as receive can improve your love life, and your life in general.

 

Few things bring on an attack of the nerves like the thought of giving the first kiss. The mouth is a powerful erogenous zone, and this first smooch can be critical. But remember: you're GIVING a kiss. It's a gift. Learn a few simple rules, and you'll be perfect each time.

Most people head right for the, er, main target; but did you know that the hands, inner bends of elbows and knees, and even the tender skin between the toes are erogenous zones? If you learn all those secret spots, you'll instantly become a better lover -- and better at seducing than you ever dreamed.

Want to make your orgasms go from so-so to rocket-fueled ecstatic peaks? Just like your other muscles, your vaginal and pelvic muscles need to be exercised to remain in peak shape. The best part: you can do vaginal exercises literally anywhere, at any time, without anyone being the wiser.

The parts of the brain involved in pain and pleasure are very close together -- and each can be used to enhance the other. Starting gently and slowly, you can learn how to use pain in your sex life to bring you to peaks of pleasure you never imagined existed.

 

The parts of the brain involved in pain and pleasure are very close together -- and each can be used to enhance the other. Starting gently and slowly, you can learn how to use pain in your sex life to bring you to peaks of pleasure you never imagined existed.

 

You've heard of tantric sex; have you ever wondered what it means? Tantra involves full participation in life, a passionate seizing of the day and the moment, and living each part of your life to the fullest. Whether it's in sex or in your career, tantra can teach you how to really live.

Human and chimp babies will die if they are not touched. Touch, in other words, is critical to being a healthy person. Today, how often do you go through the whole day without feeling the touch of another human? Learning the right ways to touch can make your life, and the lives of those around you, fulfilling and joyful.

It started with Spanish Fly and chocolate, and today involves little blue pills. Do sexual performance supplements really work? Do you really need them to have an active and rewarding sex life? The answer differs for each person, but many who think they need these things -- don't. At least, not if they know the right techniques.