We get involved with our careers, families and social obligations and at the end of the day, there is no time and sometimes little interest in sex.
I felt that it was a farce when I was asked to learn how to turn my own wife into my mistress. I was convinced that my days of passionate sex were long gone and never to return again.
I was convinced that an unemployed, shy man with my looks would never be successful with women.
As a fitness instructor I had many opportunities to have sex with many different women.
The everyday routine and money problems make us forget about the important things in life.
Erogenous Zones and Acupressure
Very few people know that the human body is full of erogenous zones. Many of those points are concealed in seemingly innocent body parts that can be touched freely even in casual encounters. Knowledge of the location and how to stimulate these â€˜secretâ€™ points will give a treasure map of sensuous pleasures.
Massage and acupressure have both been used as a source of medical healing for thousands of years. Acupressure dates back to the days of Ancient Chinese medicine. Rather than using needles, like in acupuncture, acupressure allows a person to use their fingers to ease the tension in another person's body.
The Chinese believed that these pathways are connected to something called chi, which is the center of energy in your body. Obviously, the stimulation of these paths offers many benefits, including pleasure, to the person receiving an acupressure massage.
The massage that is presented in acupressure is used to stimulate the energy that your body naturally produces. This can be used to keep you healthy, reduce illness, and to increase the comfort and enjoyment in your sex life. While it is rarely discussed, there are many evident and enjoyable reasons to consider the erotic forms of acupressure along the erogenous areas of a body.
Acupressure is similar to massage, but it is a deeper, more relaxing massage with more benefits. By using the strength of hands or other objects, you are able to work on the areas you are targeting to produce the results you hope to attain. There are really no limits because acupressure can be preformed in various positions. You can be sitting or lying down. You can also stand up if you want to change things up a bit. You will be able to switch up the routine once you learn how to provide one of these beneficial acupressure sessions.
Now that you have, a basic understanding of what acupressure is you most likely want to know how and where to use it on the body. Honestly, you can use acupressure on any part of the body that you can massage. However, if you target the erogenous zones you will manage to calm your partner down and heat them up all at the same time.
Men and women have some erogenous zones that are the same and some that are different. In order to understand where to target on which gender, letâ€™s take a deeper look at erogenous zones to gain a better understanding of the male and female seduction spots.
The neck is considered to be a sweet spot for both men and women. If you are attempting to turn a man on, a little kissing on the neck can often do the trick. Meanwhile, one of the biggest erogenous zones on women is her neck, as well. By placing a few well placed licks along her neck you may get a bigger reaction than you thought you could. Women love it and so do men. Of course, the skin on the neck is also very sensitive so you'll want to be sure that you take extra precaution to not leave bruises or scars such as hickies. While things like love bites and the sucking that hickies are caused by may feel good, most people do not appreciate them the next day when the visible marks are all that is left behind.
The lips are an obvious zone for both men and women. Foreplay brings on the chance to indulge in sensual kissing and lots of lip attention. This is just one reason women love foreplay so much. The lips are a huge erogenous zone and they are so sensitive that extra attention feels good on them. It is possible for both men and women to get heavily aroused just from kissing.
When it comes to erogenous zones, it is no wonder that the ears rank highly in both sexes. For starters, the ears are very sensitive due to the nerve endings that surround and reside in the ears. Both men and women enjoy attention to this area, and there is a lot your can do to stimulate on and around the earlobe. From whispering dirty words to blowing in someone's ear or licking along the curve of the earlobe, you will find that your partner shudders in delight with every teasing stroke.
Most people do not realize that the head and scalp are also enjoyable spots for men and women to be massaged. This could explain why many women encourage men to play with their hair. On men, this area is often ignored though if you have ever tried playing with a manâ€™s hair or massaging his scalp, chances are you can be guaranteed to hear his moans of pleasure.
This is an erogenous zone for both men and women though it is commonly explored more on the male body. The perineum is the spot between your genital area and your anus. The perineum is that little path between two highly sensitive regions. It is filled with nerve endings and as a result, is incredibly sensitive. You will be surprised to see what a little fondling and a firm massage can do when you press and rub against the perineum.
On Her Specifically
As you might have guessed there are a few spots that are specific to just female bodies. The female body is made of many erogenous zones. The best advice that anyone could give any man looking to please a woman is to explore her body. It is likely that you will find different erogenous zones that are specific to certain women. You will not be able to find those spots without a little creative foreplay, but the rewards will be well worth it!
The central spots on most women are going to be ones you would expect. The breasts and the genital area are obvious erogenous zones, although, it is important to remember that all women are different and therefore it is important to determine your course of action based on her responses.
As a whole, breasts are filled with nerve endings which make them very sensitive to the touch. The important thing is going to be to determine how much sensation your female lover prefers in this area. Some will like harsher forms of pressure while others like light touching.
The same can be said about the clitoris. Many women prefer a clitoral orgasm over a vaginal orgasm. However, there are some women who feel that this erogenous zone is just so sensitive that they do not want it touched. When it comes to the clitoris, you might want to feel around and explore. Let body language be your guide to telling you if you are on the right path or not.
On Him Specifically
Men have quite a few of their own erogenous zones though they are standard areas that you might expect. Many of the male specific zones revolve around the genital areas. The head of the penis and the anus are two of the biggest erogenous zones on a male.
Where acupressure is concerned, the chest of a male can be an incredibly sensitive spot. Some men enjoy nipple play while others do not, so when it comes to the chest you should realize that not all men are going to enjoy attention in just this one area.
When it comes to the penis, concentrating on the head will often reap favorable results. If there were one erogenous zone that stood out from the rest on a man it would be the head of his penis. This area is hands down the most sensitive area of the male body so make sure you proceed with caution and vigor, all at the same time!
The scrotum is also sensitive and occasionally ignored on a man. Often people think because the area is so fragile that it should be ignored and that is not true. You would be surprised what a nice rubbing, sucking, or humming sensation will do to your man.
Finally, we have the anus. This is a spot that many men attempt to avoid, that is until they are able to feel the intense erogenous capability of the area. It makes complete sense that the anus would be considered an erogenous zone. After all, the area really is nothing, but a bunch of nerve endings. If you want to offer your man some surprising pleasure, approach this area slowly.
Now that you have an understanding of acupressure and you know some of the erogenous zones, you may be ready to go when it comes to putting them together. Of course, there is so much that you still can discover. You may be interested in a more how-to approach, so you can do less fooling around and entice your lover with a more experienced acupressure method. If so, you may want to continue to explore your educational options to discover both the systematic approach and a plan made specifically design with you and your lover in mind.
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