Fetishes

Fetishes are something or things that are necessary to arouse and sexually fulfill a person. The intensity of a fetish for a person generally depends on the fetish and the person. Some people have mild fetishes that create arousal, but are not completely necessary for sexual enjoyment. Others find it necessary to indulge in their fantasies and fetishes in order to achieve some form of orgasm.

The type of fetish a person is into can range drastically from person to person. In all actuality, anything could be a fetish for a person considering what a fetish is. As each person is different it is really that person who will decide what will turn them on or off. A person might consider the color white to be a fetish. If that was the case every time that person saw pure white it would physically arouse them.

Of course, most fetishes are a little more in depth and personal then just a plain color. There are fetishes that seem innocent in nature. Then again, there are fetishes that are strange and just plain disturbing, as well. It is important not to judge the fetishes of others. If you do not like the same things it does not mean you have to do them. As long as the fetish is not overly dangerous and it stimulates the person in a positive manner it really is not anyone’s place to judge.

There is no such thing as a normal or un-normal fetish. Some men consider masturbation to be a fetish so they masturbate several times a day. Other men prefer to watch pornography during sex and feel that this needs to be involved in their sexual activities for them to have a better sexual experience. The things you consider a fetish might be something that has turned you on. Why the fetish exists does not matter as much as if you are nurturing it and taking the time to enjoy the pleasure that is often associated with the fetish of your choice.

Some harmless fetishes include:

• Acomoclitic – Arousal based on completely shaved genitals

• Agoraphilia – Public sex fetish (as long as children aren’t around)

• Alphmegamia – Older man fetish (as long as she is 18+)

• Gymnophilia – Sexual excitement due to nudity

• Phallophilia – Fetish based on abnormally sized penises

• Tripsophilia – Sensual massage fetish

These are many harmless, every day fetishes. You might like being tied up, spanked, or enjoy the pleasure of only clitoral stimulation in order to feel powerful orgasms.

Other fetishes might seem odd to some people but are within the realm of excitement for others. Consider these fetishes:

• Electrophilia – Arousal by electricity

• Fisting – Sexual fetish by either fisting or having a fist inserted inside of you

• Gerontophilia – Sexual attraction to the elderly

• Lactaphilia – Arousal due to lactating women

• Podophilia – Foot fetish

These are just a few fetishes that exist. You may find yours to be tamer or wilder but that is for you to determine. Whether you know the technical name or just what turns you on doesn’t matter. Just make sure you are enjoying your fetishes and the arousal that comes with them, responsibly.