Imagination

The more creative and imaginative you are in the bedroom the healthier your sex life will become. The same stagnant sexual positions, five minutes of bliss and a monotonous experience gets boring after a while. In the end, you will need to spice up your sex life or realize your partner may not be willing to continue having sex with you.

It is easy for couples to get into a rut when it comes to sex. If you have experienced this then you may have also experienced the pain of finding out your partner has been unfaithful or of being left by them for someone else.

This is why it is important to keep the spontaneity in your relationship. One of the greatest ways to do this is through creativity and a healthy sexual imagination. Be adventurous. Do not be afraid to try new things. If something interests you that you want to try, do not be nervous about speaking up and communicating your needs and desires with your partner.

Creativity & Imagination in the Bedroom

There are many things you can do to bring creativity into the bedroom consider the following activities and tips when you want to spice up your sex life and look for new imaginative ways to make your partner orgasm.

Kama Sutra: Everyone knows the most standard positions, such as missionary, doggy, and on the side. The Kama Sutra was written thousands of years ago. If you have not heard of this book, it has become a guide on not only sexual positions, but also on ways to maintain a healthy sexual lifestyle.

The Kama Sutra contains pictures and descriptions of many different sexual positions. You can let your imagination run wild as you try out the various positions, many of which offer different levels of penetration and feelings of sensation then the standard positions. If you want to spice up your sex life then the Kama Sutra is just one way you can do it easily.

BDSM Play: BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. While this play is not for everyone, you can experience elementary degrees of BDSM as a form of kink play in order to bring him or her more pleasure during sex. Adding a blindfold or tying your partner up is just one easy way to bring bondage into the bedroom. Spanking is a way to experience sadomasochistic fun. There are plenty of fun and imaginative ways to add BDSM to your life.

It is recommended that you read up on BDSM and the various forms of BDSM play before engaging in them. They can be dangerous and even when you are trying to be creative safety should be paramount.

Role-play: Have you dreamed of being a naughty nun who wants to confess all her dirty sins to the priest in your house? How about the innocent schoolgirl who is spanked with a ruler by her less than nice teacher?

If you are like every other person in the world, then you have been role-playing since you were a child. The only difference is this role-play is kinkier. You can definitely spice up your sex life by pretending to play the part of another occupation or person.

There is no wrong or right way to add a bit of creativity to your sex life and your relationship period. If you think you relationship could use a boost then why not try to come up with your own creative ways to make it last.